Fling Help - Profile FAQs

Can I upload nude photos?

Fling allows photos that give you the freedom to share your inner most desires. However, you should consider the following tips.

Yes! We enourage nudity, fantasy, lingerie, discreet, and fetish.


No photos of penetration. This means do not show the act of putting anything that fits in that little hole of yours.


No erections. - FYI guys, women like a little foreplay.


No close-up photos of your ugly stick which take up more than 50% of your photo. I mean, is your penis or vagina 50% of your entire body, No it isn't.


No violent, offensive material, or copyrighted images.


No images of other people without their permission.

No photos of your children or minors under the age of 18. This is an adult site. adults only! We mean it!

How do I make my profile discreet?
There is an option in manage account to make your profile discreet. Only members in your black book are able to see your photos.

How do I read messages?
Messages are both located in your user home and in your messages area. If you wish to send someone a message, simply click on their profile and click SEND MESSAGE. You may also style your messages with basic html, such as font size, style, & colors.

What is a blackbook?
What? You've never owned a blackbook? Wow, ok.. Let me step back here one second. Well in case you've never had a booty call before, a blackbook is a contact list of people who you wish to have a fling with. People added to your blackbook are allowed to view your discreet profile photos. To add someone to your blackbook, simply click "ADD FRIEND" on their profile page.

What does hotness mean?
The hotter you are, the more you use Fling! It's that simple. Hotness is determined by how often you use search tools, update photos, and message other members. If you haven't used Fling for some time, your hotness factor decreases, causing you to show up last in the search results. So upload a new photo, search members, and raise the heat.

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